Mothers who have experienced the fear of "might abuse my child" account for 77%. Mothers who have experienced uncontrollable irritation are 94.4%. These are not stories from special families. These figures are reported by "very ordinary parents" with no history of postpartum depression diagnoses and who are in continuing marriages. The Association for Infant and Toddler Child-Rearing Support has conducted four child-rearing reality surveys over seven years since 2016. The results of the largest survey conducted in 2023 (4,400 valid responses) were compiled into the "Postpartum Depression and Child Abuse Prevention Survey Policy Recommendation White Paper 2016–2023," published in June 2026. For seven years, mothers' suffering has not improved. ■ Key Data from the Survey 【94.4%】Mothers who experienced uncontrollable irritation (2023 survey) Across all years, the peak occurred between "2-4 months postpartum." This coincides with the period after returning home from a visit to relatives and re-entering a nuclear family, where contact with adults drastically decreases. 【77.0%】Mothers who experienced the fear of "might abuse my child" This has remained consistently high since the 2019 survey (84%). The peak period was around age 2 (terrible twos: 17.1%), indicating a risk that extends not only into the early postpartum period but also through toddlerhood. 【7 Years】No signs of improvement (2016→2023) Feelings of loneliness, irritation, and fear of abuse have all shown no numerical improvement since the first survey in 2016. While budgets are allocated to measures for declining birthrates, the reality for those raising children remains unchanged. 【46.7%】Reason for not using public consultation services: "It's not serious enough to consult about." Despite experiencing severe distress, individuals underestimate their own situation by thinking "I'm okay," creating a structure that prevents them from accessing support, which has been fixed for seven years. ■ Why Hasn't It Chang